this summer communication has been my primary focus. i’ve been approaching day to day interactions as a social experiment of sorts. witnessing how the CHOICES i make, in how i direct my actions in the world, my use of spoken words, even more subtly how my thoughts directly influences the situation.
if i walk in to a situation where everyone is stressed out, but i am calm and joyous, it has the miraculous power of rubbing off. the whole room becomes lighter. in this way we really can create the reality in which we want to exist. we can do and be what we want to see.
i often find myself suggesting “do what you want” both to myself and others. and then there is a pause and a moment to check in,
what do i want
(a very important pause and reflection in this time of speed and multi tasking).
what do you mean by “you do what you want”? what’s the emotion/drive behind it?
probably more layers than i acknowledge, this prompted an exploration of what it means to “do what you want”
- it’s repeating something i’ve heard said
- it’s a softening (of my own deep seeded desire to control)
- it’s freeing and sweet
- it’s aimed to be a reminder that in the play of your life, ultimately you are (if not the director) the assistant director.
if you don’t like the way a scene is going, YOU have this amazing ability to change the script.
if the play goes differently than you expected, that can be a wonderful thing,
if you are present, if you are checking in, if you ask, is this what i want, both for the immediate present at hand as well as for what lies ahead.
- it’s a reminder when we are busy making plans and choices god laughs at us for thinking we have that ability to control anything….
- it’s a hope, that we will listen to the heart-mind, and act from a seat of compassion, not from a seat of anger, jealousy, or fear.
- it’s a space from which i see limitless possibilities
- it’s an i love YOU, not who you think i want you to be, and an invitation to be YOU, so i can meet that
my dear teacher Sharon Gannon teaches we can have anything we want in this life, if we are willing first to provide it for others.
this teaching, so rich in it’s simplicity, is the recipe for magic. whatever it is you want, create it, share it, and then there it is in the world.
if you want world peace, act more peacefully towards others, suddenly the world has more peace in it. simply, be what you wish to see in the world.
If we want to be free, then it seems we shouldn’t make a slave of anyone. If we want enlightenment for ourselves, then we must begin to see others as holy, enlightened beings. Through such purification of perception, one becomes enlightened, because ultimately, it will take an enlightened being to see another enlightened being (it takes one to know one). -Sharon Gannon